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Keep Calm and Carry On

Keep Calm and Carry On

Keep Calm and Carry OnAs we march into spring, it seems that everyone gets busier, more frenetic. Like the birds and the bees, we’re inspired to improve our nests and bring home the nectar to our family hives. As the pace picks up, I’m reminded by this story to keep a calm head:

Once a wise man was walking with a few of his followers. They saw a small lake in the distance, and the wise man said to one of his followers, “I am thirsty. Go get me some water from that lake.”

The follower eagerly ran to the lake. But there were people in it, splashing around, making the water cloudy. The follower shouted that a very important man wanted to drink the water and everyone should get out, but no one listened. Feeling ashamed, he returned to the wise man, complaining “The water is too dirty, and no one will listen to me and get out.” The wise man nodded, but said nothing.

After an hour, the wise man asked the same follower to go back to the lake and get him some water. This time the follower found that everyone had left, and the silt had settled down. The water now looked fit to drink, so he brought some to the wise man.

The wise man looked at the water and said, “See what you did to make the water clean? You let it be. Your life force is like the water. When you are frantic and anxious, your spirit becomes cloudy and distasteful. Just let it be. Things will become clearer. It is effortless.”

All My Best,



Eric Leigh
Your Mortgage Consultant For Life

P.S. If spring has you wound up, remember to keep calm and carry on! If you need anything from me, reach out to me by email at Eric [at] EricsLoans [dot] com…or Contact Me via this website.

Strength Through Adversity

Strength Through Adversity

As you embrace the start of the New Year, it’s important to give yourself room to grow. It’s also important to remember that growth is not always easy or obvious. I’m reminded of the following story, a valuable metaphor for embracing adversity:

A man found the cocoon of a butterfly. A small opening appeared. The man sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through the little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could and could go no farther.

The man decided to help, so he took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily. But it had a swollen body and shriveled wings.

The man continued to watch the butterfly because he expected that at any moment the wings would expand and the body would contract to the proper proportion.

Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around. It never was able to fly.

In his kindness and haste, the man had not understood something. A restricting cocoon and the struggle for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening were nature’s way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom.

Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need to become stronger in character and determination. If nature allowed us to go through life without any obstacles, we would not learn how to be resilient and powerful. We might never fly!

Kind Regards,



Your Mortgage Consultant For Life

P.S. Let me know if you have any great stories to share about resilience. Email me at Eric [at] EricsLoans [dot] com, or Contact Me via this website.